MY BITTER EX GIRLFRIEND IS LEGITIMATELY A PSYCHO
SIGNS PROVING THAT YOUR EX IS A PSYCHO
I WILL SHOW YOU!
This is probably the worst one, your ex tries to hurt you emotionally, breaking up is a sensitive thing yes we all know that, that is why we have Psychos at the end right? This skinny little thing won’t just accept that we are done and recently she has started her own “I will show you campaign”
Recently I was somewhere very far where she will never be in her life and apparently she got hold of my friend trying to convince him that I am self-centered, well that did not come as a shock to me but I was amazed by the fact that she still find time to check up on me and witnessing my success in every aspect.
In her “I will show YOU campaign” she decided to date my other friend an old college friend of mine, in her tiny drunk mind thinking that she would get back to me, pity she only found out that a black man child is not easy affected by love games. My only fear is: I am afraid that she is heading to self-destruction, all of these things are done out of anger and disappointments with a bitter heart.
Well expects view is that: most ex girls end up in the very same situations because they are deeply hurting and this is the only way they can process their hurt feelings. They feel like if they have to suffer, you too are going to suffer and even more. They try to get back to at you and it just comes across as dirty, not realizing that you don’t even care about everything that they throw at you and they just form a long list of people hitting on you.
She is in complete denial, she will try to argue with you “we are not over, over yet…we love each other…what are you talking about …look how happy we are together!” she will not let you break up with her, even though you have moved on to another person about five years ago, she will make things up like “He proposed to me on the beach in front of his parents! We talked about having a baby, a family a happy one” but in reality none of this actually happened, but in a psycho’s mind it did and only justifies her crazy behavior.
SHE GIVE’s YOU “I AM NOT CRAZY SPEECH”
And when you finally decide to confront her about all her insane behavior, she will give you a two hour Academy Award winning speech about how she is in fact, not crazy . with this speech you get to see her mastery of acting, she laughs, cry, yell and even go as far as creating a monologue. She tries to convince you that she is not crazy. But the whole time you have your finger hovering over the call button to 911. The more someone tries to convince you that she is not crazy, the more she cement herself into actually being crazy.
One of my ex’s threatened to kill herself on the regular, I knew She wouldn’t do it and that it was all talk, but it still frightened me that she thought she could manipulate me into getting back together with her by telling me that she was going to kill herself. I was still in high school and really was against being in a relationship with too many girls…she would text me and say things like “I can’t live without you, I am seriously going to kill myself…I love you, when I die you would be the last on my mind” well had she known that I was not even going to attend her funeral. High school drama class really paid off for her didn’t it. At first I played into it because I was worried, but after 5 suicide threats I stopped texting back and guess what she is alive today and she wants to actually kill me, well it’s not a laughing matter but at times I do sit by myself and laugh.
HOW TO DEAL WITH A PSYCHO WOMAN
1. DON’T TELL A CRAZY WOMAN THAT SHE IS A PSYCHO
One way to make a Psycho woman go “psycho 2.0” is to tell her she is crazy, she will lose her freaking mind even more! Don’t do this it will open an even bigger can of worms and you will be wishing you do kept your trap shut.
2. STAY CALM AND DON’T FREAK OUT
Usually if you are chilled out and she sees that it is not affecting you, she will stop, believe it or not. A lot of women go “Nutso” because it’s a
mechanism that has helped them get their way with men for many years and they are used to it working all the time.
3. DON’T GIVE IN TO HER CRAZINESS
A lot of guys “give in” when a woman is acting nuts, thus encouraging the behavior. Giving in is a bad idea cause now she knows that she OWNS YOU. She knows that she can hit her “Bullshit crazy” switch anytime and you are going to give in and give her what she wants
You need to end this vicious cycle…Don’t give in…stay strong, steady and when she knows she is going to lose the battle she will stop.
4. DON’T BE SUBMISSIVE
If a crazy dog is going to attack you and you are cornered, the best thing you can do is be dominant and the dog is more likely to back down.
5. SHOW HER THAT YOU ARE NOT AFRAID
A lot of women know that if you are afraid, you will do what they want, the same goes with the dog analogy I gave you. Show them that you are not afraid and get ripped to pieces. Show them you are not afraid and they will back down.
6. Since you are in a situation that is making you miserable, you have to get out of it as soon as possible and it takes a lot of balls to tell a crazy woman to get the hell out of your life. It takes a lot of balls to be direct and say “look here you crazy person, I am not taking any more of your psycho shit!”
7. GET AWAY FROM HER OR GET RID OF HER ASAP
When you had enough and you know that it’s not going to get better, get rid of her, if you can’t get rid of her, then Get Away from her! Seriously cut her out of your life, if you really have to change your numbers change them.
8. DON’T CONTACT HER ANYMORE
I don’t care how awesome she was in bed and how horny you are, never reopen that door to hell, reality is crazy woman are great in bed for some crazy reasons. Once in a while, I will wonder “Hmm…I should see how she is doing.” Then a voice in my head slaps the hell out of me and says “dude! What! Are you insane? No” if you want the craziness to stay gone, don’t invite it back into your life. Don’t open that cage back up. Disappear off the face of the planet as far as she is concerned and Stay Gone… No adding on Facebook or Instagram.
9. CRAZY WOMEN WILL FINALLY FADE OUT OF YOUR LIFE
Most crazy women don’t just disappear out of your life without a trace, there is always that chance that they are going to be like a mental patient kicking, screaming and leaving scratch marks on the walls as doctors and nurses carry them to padded cell. They will contact you like crazy and if you change your number they find a way to get hold of you, they call contact friends, family just to hear them out.